When He Wonders Why You're Different
by Mimi Tanner, author of The Reverse Ultimatum
When you hold back, you give your man a chance to WANT you.
This week, we've been talking about how to stop revolving your life around his.
When you hold back, you literally INSPIRE your man. He starts thinking about you. You get his REAL attention.
You may even get some complaints from him! That's even MORE proof that you have his attention.
The way you handle this is so important. Don't be flippant or rude. Be sweet! Be more adorable than ever before. You KNOW you can pull this off.
Flirt with him and give him excellent attention when you're WITH him. And don't ignore his calls or texts.
Some women find it difficult to see their guy the least bit uneasy. But don't feel bad about this, because men WANT to want you more. They love the feeling of being inspired to think about you, wonder about you, and yes, chase you!
Does he ask you what's up, why you've changed? You can tell him that you know he needs his space sometimes! And then mention that you're really busy anyway with everything you've got going with your work, family, friends, or that big project. And when you say that, be sure to punctuate it by putting your arms around him flirtatiously and giving him a deep kiss.
"You're trying to change the subject," he may say.
"Oh yes, I am; how could you tell?" you can reply in your most appealing voice! You can take it from there!
See how much fun it can be to change the balance of power in your relationship?
The Reverse Ultimatum will show your man how he really feels and what he really wants. It really is a secret formula to "Get a Commitment Without Conflict."
Find out how to get his attention AND his commitment at The Reverse Ultimatum.
What People Are Saying
"Mimi writes an easy-to-read guide, which provides immediate results and can help avoid confusion and heartache. Traditional views and concepts are flawed and do not represent the truer essence of human nature. It's not trickery, but merely a guide for balancing a relationship with love and respect while providing opportunity to see if the glass slipper fits."
"Well, I put her information to work, and let me just say he did everything just as Mimi said it would happen... Including the four words every in love girl wants to hear.
"Her words are right on the money, and if you put them into play the way she instructs, it will help you also!"
"Pressure only creates resistance, so following the plan laid out in this book allows a relationship to decompress without imploding.
"We've all tried the 'other option' with usually poor results-Mimi's approach helps to restore a balance and dignity to a relationship from which possible healing and progress can be made. In the worst case scenario, you have begun to restore a life to return to if the relationship is truly over.
"The Reverse Ultimatum is a worthy read."
It gives you a different angle to view things from so you feel more empowered."
"Your Reverse Ultimatum is frighteningly on target. How did you get so good at understanding the
male mind? Your techniques would keep a guy up at night with visions of his lady waltzing off with a better man.
But, oh boy, are they effective if the man truly loves her and is waffling." - Robert
- M.D.