Is He Willing To Risk Losing You?
by Mimi Tanner, author of The Reverse Ultimatum
So you've known him for years; you have a healthy relationship, and you're both in love. The only thing missing, to you, is the next step!
You've had the talk; you've had high hopes, but you're at an impasse.
So you work on your relationship even more. You become even more wonderful than ever... and then what happens?
Eventually you may decide to stop waiting. Someone else could come along, too. And your guy does know this.
This is what my program The Reverse Ultimatum zeros in on. Here is an excerpt from The Reverse Ultimatum - Get A Commitment Without Conflict:
Your man knows that if he drags his feet indefinitely without ever committing to you, you will eventually meet someone else.
You will meet new eligible love interests all the time. You'll meet the brother of a new friend. You'll meet the caterer at a party. You'll meet new people where you're volunteering your time.
In other words, for the uncommitted man, competition is always a possibility. The risk of losing one day you is very real.
This is simply a fact of life for any unmarried couple when one of them is too complacent. A "better man" can come along. After all, you are a desirable romantic partner. As an attractive single woman, your life brings you into contact with others who will be interested in you.
Your guy has not yet "claimed" you as his fiancee or wife, and this becomes a glaringly obvious fact the longer you two are together.
Your man may have given you ideas about "someday." But it's time for his wakeup call: Your life is moving faster than his commitment to you.
That is the main message that the Reverse Ultimatum sends to your man. Your life is flowing, and he needs to catch up, and catch you, or he will be left behind, because he took you for granted and failed to "claim" you by making a commitment.
Your beloved will come to his own conclusions and make his own decisions, instead of being told what you want him to do.
In other words, it will be HIS idea.
That's what the Reverse Ultimatum is all about.
What People Are Saying
"Mimi writes an easy-to-read guide, which provides immediate results and can help avoid confusion and heartache. Traditional views and concepts are flawed and do not represent the truer essence of human nature. It's not trickery, but merely a guide for balancing a relationship with love and respect while providing opportunity to see if the glass slipper fits."
"Well, I put her information to work, and let me just say he did everything just as Mimi said it would happen... Including the four words every in love girl wants to hear.
"Her words are right on the money, and if you put them into play the way she instructs, it will help you also!"
"Pressure only creates resistance, so following the plan laid out in this book allows a relationship to decompress without imploding.
"We've all tried the 'other option' with usually poor results-Mimi's approach helps to restore a balance and dignity to a relationship from which possible healing and progress can be made. In the worst case scenario, you have begun to restore a life to return to if the relationship is truly over.
"The Reverse Ultimatum is a worthy read."
It gives you a different angle to view things from so you feel more empowered."
"Your Reverse Ultimatum is frighteningly on target. How did you get so good at understanding the
male mind? Your techniques would keep a guy up at night with visions of his lady waltzing off with a better man.
But, oh boy, are they effective if the man truly loves her and is waffling." - Robert
- M.D.